A few weeks ago my friend Kait sent me a link to an unfavorable write-up about me. She wasn't trying to bum me out or anything, she had the best intentions: A good friend, Kait was looking out for me and wanted me to be aware of it.
I really appreciated her taking the time to tell me, and having my back, but this was my reply to her:
I find it's more important to spend my time …
