I decided to temporarily take this post down; I really didn't expect it to cause such a stir, especially because other people have been blogging about this topic, too -- but my point is, I didn't intend to cause a ruckus, that's the last thing I wanted (and the last thing I need).
I have a new book to write and need to focus. As much as I have loved all the great questions, sweet emails, and debate about this …
